Love is blind. But so much that you cannot see commitment?

Hundreds of times. Yes exactly! Hundreds of times I have seen this question on different sites asking what to do when the love of your life is in love with someone else?

Leave them on their own dude and get going with your life. Why do you have to pursue someone whose heart beats for someone else? Cannot you find someone good enough for your own self? Or are you that crazy person who breaks other people’s relationships? If yes, then trust me, even Cupid won’t ever pity you.

1. They seem happy together. Precisely!

The one you like seems happy and smiling all the time because she/ he is with the one they love. Not necessary that they too will be the same with you. Everyone has a reason to smile. Everyone has a reason to be happy about and perhaps it is the person who they are with.

2. They are a romantic

Because they are in loooooove. Don't you see that? They love someone and romance is natural. SO if you think they are sharing romantic vibes with you, it is not actually you but someone who they love immensely. And it is human nature to share right. SO don't get confused.

3. They seem perfect all the time.

Even if they goof up of do something silly, they seem perfect to you. Partly because they do nit need to impress you and partly because your eyes only seek them. You do not just pay attention to rest of the world! Huh!

4. You have been missing out on people.

Trust me, there is always someone who pines for you. But we are so blinded by our own choices that we do not see the ones who love us. May be if we could give them a chance. And you know what? In reality you don't even want to be with your crush. You just want to feel liberated in love like them. It is the feeling that you want. So why not just be happy with someone who loves you truly rather than trying to break someone's relationship and then trying to build yours?

5. Face the truth

They won't be happy with you. You have been evil and sooner or later, they will find it out. And just imagine the hatred you fill have to deal with. Gruesome right? And what about the guilt you will have to carry. Arrrgh!!

6. Love is not forced.

You cannot make someone love you. You cannot force them or anyone for that matter to be with you while they are planning their future with someone else. All you can do is wish for someone who will be with you as they are with their partner. Love is beautiful. Don't mess it up.

7. Put yourself in their shoes.

Imagine yourself being deeply in love with someone and then all of a sudden something happens and you break up. Will you be able to love someone with whole of your heart again? How cruel it will be to live alone and suddenly sad and lifeless?

Don't make that happen to someone else. Love is about giving. Not having. Sometimes you just have to let the situation be as it is. You cannot change nor can do anything about it. Simply accept it.

Find and seek your love. Not someone else's.

So searching for your own fish now?