We are back with the second part of assistance regarding managing your kids and helping them grow into altruistic and kind people, along with their little mischief and innocent goals. Continuing from where we left, here are few more points to ponder and keep in mind.
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Indulge in outings when you have time. During such times prefer gardens, zoos, picnics, etc. Connect your child with nature rather than taking him to malls and movies
Talk to your children with love and respect. What you give is what you are served with. So if you want your children to behave with you nicely, it is important that you be good to them.
Unwind with your children. Play games with them, listen to their daily routine. This not only freshens up but also makes your children realize that it is good to talk and they are cared for.
Do not ever stop your children from sharing. We generally have this habit of keeping the good things for our own self. Get rid of this habit. Sharing is helping.
If you happen to scold your child never shower with expensive gifts to make up later. Instead talk to them, make them realize what made you scold them and why they shouldn't be involving themselves in this further. They are the most non judgmental people and listen and learn.
Never laugh on your children. Let them make mistakes and learn from them. Laughing only stop them from experimenting.
Do not inculcate the difference between boy and girl. Neither stop them from making friends with opposite sex.
Mother does specifically need to put in extra time and efforts on to raise a child. We do not anyhow debate on them being working or not. In fact they should be independent. But a child shares most exclusive bond with their mother. A mother is an epitome of love, care compassion and best teachings. A child learns much more from his mother than anyone else. In case you can spend most of your time with them in the initial years.
It is a must that the mother stay near to the kid in the growing years. If you must, do make arrangements since it is your child's future we talk about.
Honesty, integrity, obedience, cleanliness, discipline, value of trust, benefits of good health, etc are some things that should be instilled by showing and not reading out.
We hope that the end of this article does give you some insights as to how to deal with the challenges that you face as a parent. Do leave your comments.
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