Yes, life can totally be a sad and desperate one, mixed with generous amounts of misery garnished with vulnerability. But is that it? No.
Life is much more than being sad, grieving and continuing with the flow. But this happens when you have the right amount of positivity, energy and understanding that to work for your betterment, you first need to get your things sorted. People and situation may come as an obstacle. Get over them. Create an atmosphere that helps you to take other people into consideration who mean a lot to you and who genuinely care for you.
Work- yes, tensions- yes, stress- yes; all will be there. But your victory lies in surpassing these, containing your calm and being able to convert the bad times into good times. Life banks on you. Do not get bankrupt there.
Life may not be simple today and may get worse tomorrow but how you manage it is what makes you stand out from your own past where you were lost and had no hopes.
Yes, pressure kills but it makes you stand out as well if you handle it perfectly. You can call it stress or tension but if you accept it well and have the ability to convert it for your own good, nothing can beat you. If it weren't meant for you to get better, it would not have come your way. When you are being judged, you can stand out. Just hold your head and self respect and nothing can go wrong.
You might not be destined to do great things but you can make them happen by sheer willingness and by dreaming. Yes, day dreamers are called names and are often the target of people to poke fun at or play games with but you have to chuck them literally. Focus on the people who believed in you through out. Who stood by you and who told you that life could be worse but it is better with you.
Every time you stumble upon a problem, first count the blessings you have and then your problems. No it is not going to end your misery but it can help you understand that being grateful for one thing makes tougher things easy and help you get over with them fast. No matter how much you are going through, you will always have one thing to smile about. Hold on to it for every bit of life you have always wanted and desired.
A great man once said, if you do not know and have the solution, ask around and do not worry because the condition would not change and if you have the solution, why worry? Ain't it simply the answer to all of our questions from life? We cannot change the situation but yes, we can change our approach and come to a point where it no longer bothers us. Remember, nothing is worth having your nights spent in tension and tears.
Perfection is imaginary. Yes it can be real and achieved when you have everything in order. But ruining every little thing for that,is not going to help. Your ambition should be to move ahead. Troubles will come but they will go too. Focus on the bidding them goodbye part. Stick to well being of yourself and the things that matter- your life and the lives around you.
Things might be bad today but tomorrow will be better and beautiful. Night might make you cry but morning will make you smile. Tears might appear but the smile will never be far away. Few things and people need patience to be dealt with. Give them that chance. You are together for a reason. Make that reason worthwhile. Make this life and your days worthwhile.
Hold on to it like nothing else. Positive thoughts bring a positive you and when you become an optimist, everything changes for your own good.
We often end up taking life too seriously and complaining, keeping grudges and planning revenges but is that it? We mean is life all about thinking about others and taking steps that will result in a thing for others? You might not know this but you actually end up making their life interesting and yours is played on the same record for ages to come without bearing any fruitful condition.
This is your life. Seize every single moment and make the most of it. You are not a cat to have a number of lives and even if you do, you are not getting this one back again.
So live and live to the fullest with the brightest of smile.
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