I am not a delicate darling and I am not sorry about it!

Team WOWRAL Apr 21, 2016

Tom... what? Don't call us that!

Yes. Right. We are not the Tom'boys' as you like to call us. It is just that we are not into the lovey dovey stuff with heart on our sleeves, with tears rolling out at the speed of a waterfall in monsoons and dresses that may catch attention. We are a simpler version of womanhood with all the grace, poise, warmth and love.

Let us put it in this way: we do not like much of a clutter on our plate. We are clean. Not that we hate the other category of women but we cannot live like that and are we proud of that? Yes, very much.

1. I do it all

1. I do it all

I wear hats. I wear dresses. I wear sarees too. But if you find me mostly in my comfort clothes that are not too feminine then what is the issue? Won'r you wear that makes you feel most relaxed? Well, the same case.

2. No, I do not have short hair

2. No, I do not have short hair

It has become more like a myth. Imagine a tomboy (how I do not like that word!). And what do you see? Denims, tees, jackets, short hair and boots? Grow up! We are not strong or delicate because of the clothes we wear. But because of the strength of our heart and willingness.

3.. Pink is not equal to a woman

3.. Pink is not equal to a woman

Cut the crap! So what if I like black, blue or white? Do men hold the rights to these colors and all those candy floss and cake cream colors be reserved for women? Where is the gender equality we talk about in speeches and long and never ending seminars? And if this were the case, why should every woman have a LBD (Little Black Dress)? Hypocrites!

4. I have made my choices and I am proud of them.

4. I have made my choices and I am proud of them.

Indeed I behave in a particular manner. Indeed I have my sexuality. But there are reasons the way I am today. I might be straight, gay or even bisexual. Indeed I do not put on make up and walk in high heels but hey, they are my choices and you should not judge. Not because it is wrong. But you are bound to respect me as a person. I come from a different world with different situations and they have made me the person I am today. So just accept and I will do the same for you.

5. Toms, Dicks and Harrys, please excuse!

5. Toms, Dicks and Harrys, please excuse!

Seriously! Not everyone and anyone can make us fall in head over heels or weak in our knees or in simple words- in love!

6. Chocolates, flowers, hearts. Well, what?

6. Chocolates, flowers, hearts. Well, what?

Yes we love them too but if we receive these as gifts every month and for the whole of the "Valentines Week", pray tell us what to do with them! Instead give us a sapling. We must help the planet first right?

7. Superpowers? We are them.

7. Superpowers? We are them.

All women have superpowers. Whether they juggle or are masters, it is their patience but yes,we all are superhumans. Home, office, children, food, work, smile- tell us how else can we manage that?

8. We can kick your a$$!

8. We can kick your a$$!

Games? Life? Work? Home? We can beat you any given day. Already stated that we are superhumans and we work in that manner. For us everything is lovely, lively and happiness until you turn competitive and then we can beat the heck out of you. All we need is a spark to get on!

9. We do not dress up. But when we do..

9. We do not dress up. But when we do..

...we go for the kill!

10. We love to get married!

10. We love to get married!

Why would not we? All the hustle bustle, the love, the warmth, the care, the fun, the laughs. Oh how we love all of that!

We might not go Awww or OMG or Wowieee or greet our friends with the hugs and kisses. But nevertheless we are beautiful, warm and most caring women you will ever meet and that- if you are lucky enough!

Like us to read more better stories