How many times we have to face the same and run from them? You need to send away the fears now.

We are born.

We experience things.

We learn to accept and assimilate.

We learn to grow with thoughts.

And then we get stuck. At some point. Some incidents. Some matters. They never leave our minds and for worse, our hearts!

Sticking them has only brought pain. How about letting them go now? How? Well, we can give a try at providing solutions.

1. Accept- yourself and others.

The biggest mistake we ever do is by continuing to find flaws in others. Age, height, weight, numbers, religions, work, profession, background, locality, class of living and so on, The comparisons do not end. There is continued friction between the ones who are considered to be the best and the ones who do not reach up to that mark.

Seriously, who are we to decide all this? Every religion teaches us that all human beings and even animals were created equal and there should be no rift. But what have we done? We have reached a state that, leave others, we ourselves fail to accept the way we are. Our individuality. Our existence. Our purpose of life. And this is the most saddening part.

Get over it. You are who you are. You may be fat, thin, stout, short, tall, damaged, perfect but it is you- that makes your identity. Never ever give up. You were, are and will always be someone's most special treasure. And that person is you.

2. Build up that face

Be people ready. They will beat you down to the lowest level possible and chide you, tease you, bully you, call you names and will even go to the extent of spreading rumours about you. be ready to take it all.

But be ready to give back to. No with punches, slaps or hockey sticks. But with level of intelligence, efficiency, correct attitude, confidence and a bit of maturity. Peopel do not like nicer people around. this is a fact. Don't care about them. Do not forget the purpose of your life.

3. The past has gone. Let it rest.

Whatever happened, it is over. It lies in the past. It is over. It does not make you. It is about you making a life that promises you of a new future filled with opportunities and a life that is open to making mistakes and learning from them. Life is serious but not at the cost of not enjoying it. Live well. You get only one chance to remember it.

4. Let it go.

You have to. Choose to live as if you have no other option. You need to understand that the more you focus on your past, the lesser you will be able to live happily. Happiness is an inside job. And who should work for it? You- the person you are. people will talk and make jokes or spread rumours. But how long? And to think of it, do such people really matter? No. never. they are here to tell you that life is not all fun and frolic but yes, you must not let them ruin the whole of it. You need to bid a goodbye.

Start afresh and start as early as possible. You have come for a life that is desired by so many. never compare yourself. make yourself worth of all the joys and happiness you see in others. What stops you from getting there?You. So just jump ove rthat barrier, cross the fence and you will see that the sun always shines brightly.