5 habits that you should give up!

Team WOWRAL May 07, 2016

Today's times might be tough. But if you practice the following, you are in a greater soup!

Everyone wants to climb the ladder of success and fortune. But at the cost of yourself? Here are five habits that if you continue, you might lose you the identity and the person that you are. Be better and leave these as soon as possible as these result only in over shadowing your true skills and making you look like a lost person who is thriving with the help of others. Leave these now!

1. Pleasing people

1. Pleasing people

Pleasing people is perhaps the best way to make sure that people do not notice your talents, your skills and your hard work. Flattery will never ever help you reach heights that you have imagined. It takes guts to go against the norms, take up challenges and prove yourself right. And the worst? People who you try to please do not even have a higher opinion of you. For them you are just a spineless jerk who cannot do anything on his own.

So tell us, why do it?

2. Accept change for your own good

2. Accept change for your own good

Do not run from changes. Make them a part of your life and go with the flow. Only rigid people who remain stagnant are the ones who do not change and hence they do not even succeed. You must in case you want to grow as a person and beyond.

3. Past? What's that?

3. Past? What's that?

Time and over we have always talked about how one should move ahead, leaving the past behind. If you are the one who stays there, you are the one who loses out. Things in past stay there because they are menat to be over. if you stretch them for too long, you will only suffer and  be sad. Instead, learn from the events and mistakes and move on. Never repeat them.

4. No self importance

4. No self importance

This is very crucial. You a s a person must respect yourself and if you are not able to, mend yourself to become a better one. Bring about the chnages that will help you look in the mirror and be proud of yourself. Don't be a snob, but yes, be someone with self esteem. 

5. Overthinking

5. Overthinking

Without conducting a survey, we can easily say this one habit is found in almost 90% of the people everywhere. What if I do this, what if not, what if this happens, should I have not done it, should I go, must I do this, is she the right girl, etc etc.

So many endless questions. And trust us, overthinking is not going to solve this. It will only worsen the problem and land you more deeply in thoughts which are not only unreasonable but most of the times negative too. So do not be too involved. Do what you feel is right not what society thinks!

Please stop before these habits consume you. You are a wonderful person. You need not prove it. Just keep up the good work!

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