Cold feet? Unnerved? Sad? Don't be because 20s will teach you the most harsh but the most wonderful lessons...

..and they will stick with you forever, guide you, help you reach your destination and make you realize what life truly is about.

1. No one cares

No, no one does.

Your family- yes, but count no one else. Not even your friends.

2. Overnight success and fame? What's that?

Get over. There is nothing that you can reap in a day or two. Everything needs success. Everything requires hard work.

3. You need to earn

You cannot run away from this. You need to slog if you must but there is a need that you must learn to do things and learn to live life your way.

4. Failure

Planning- check.

Hard work- check.

Retrospect- - check.

Everything in order and yet you fail.

5. Love might not be forever

Yes, they might leave you. You cannot be too sure. Things happen in 20s and everyone cannot catch up. Sometimes you both leave each other and sometimes one of you wants to walk out. So do not count too much.

6. Don't be emotional. Money is important

The whole world is fighting for it. So if you think you can get over it, forget it. When you see people doing stuff and you cannot because of the lack of money, it hits you bad. Manage your money and budget properly and keep monitoring.

7. The cribbing need to go away.

Seriously! Bid a goodbye to all the complaining and crying because of a thing happened to you. Face it and get it done. No one will come to help you and that is a bitter truth.

8. Read

There is nothing better than reading. It imparts you knowledge, experiences, lessons from different people who took the pain to pen down theirs and help you with betterment.

9.You need to learn to take care..

of your family, your partner, your finances, your jobs and most importantly of your own self. You are working hard and you need a good life so why not alter it and put the best mode on?

10. Don't waste your time

Your years, you will never get them back. Spend them wisely. Use them well to secure your future- not just in terms of money but in security and status.

11. Your parents were, are and will always be right

And you will realize this now. They have enough experience, incidents, talks and memories that have made them this wise and why not. After all they have lived all these years we are going through now and have done exceptionally well.

12. You live only once, make the most of it.

We hope you do not need any explanations for this!

Feeling better?